
Self(ish) Confidence
Your confidence is your superpower… but what if you don’t have any? It can be hard to show up as your authentic self. When we go out, or even scrolling on the couch, it's easy to get trapped in the comparison game, making it even harder to be beautifully you. Self(ish) Confidence is about finding your confidence, shining your light and taking action toward your unconventional life. Every week, we'll chat through barriers that could hold you back. Follow along with me, Jess Clerke, as we learn to find our confidence together and begin to share our magic with the world.
Episodes
273 episodes
[271] Between Now & Next: The Messy Middle of Transition Seasons
Life's transitions often leave us dangling in "the in-between" – those disorienting periods where we no longer fit our old identity but haven't fully stepped into our new one. Whether you're navigating postpartum changes, career shifts, relatio...
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Episode 271
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28:00

[270] What's Your Green?: Finding Magic in Being Different
Have you ever felt different, like you don't quite fit the mold society created? What if that "weirdness" is actually your superpower? Drawing inspiration from the movie Wicked, this episode explores how embracing what makes us unique—our perso...
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Episode 270
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26:02

[269] The Myth of Having It All: Comparison, Social Media and Self-Recognition
Struggling with constantly comparing yourself to others? You're not alone. In this raw and vulnerable episode, I open up about my own battle with comparison during the postpartum period, and how it's affecting my confidence even as someone who ...
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Episode 269
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21:23

[268] Birth, Postpartum and Navigating New Motherhood
Six weeks into motherhood, I've discovered something surprising: the hard part wasn't birth day—it's every day that follows. Not because it's terrible (though sometimes it is), but because it demands a complete reinvention of who you are and ho...
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Episode 268
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38:42

[267] [INTERVIEW] Burnout to Breakthrough: Rediscovering Your True Self w/ Dr. Megan Daley
Step into a transformative journey as we explore burnout, grief, and authentic self-discovery with Dr. Megan Daley. In this episode, Megan candidly shares her powerful experience navigating the complexities of caregiving for her father during h...
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Episode 267
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36:37

[266] [INTERVIEW] Breaking Money Barriers w/ Lindsey Konchar
Are you ready to crack open the conversation about finances and step into your power? In today’s episode, we tackle the often-taboo topic of money and self-confidence with financial therapist Lindsey Konchar. Together, we explore the weight of ...
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Episode 266
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41:25

[265] [INTERVIEW] Becoming the 'Best Tea Besties' w/ Ashley O'Connor
Jess and Ashley dive into their friendship and the unpredictable journey of life changes in this episode. They discuss navigating new roles, the challenge of maintaining friendships, the impact of social media, and the aspirations of starting a...
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Episode 265
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37:58

[264] [INTERVIEW] From Planned Paths to Creative Confidence w/ Megan Seibel
What happens when the life path you’ve meticulously planned takes an unexpected turn? Join me and my good friend Megan Seibel as we share a heartfelt and candid journey through significant life changes and unexpected discoveries. From our first...
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Episode 264
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48:37

[263] [INTERVIEW] Matrescence and Mothershift w/ Jessi Harold
Ever wondered how motherhood can transform not just your life, but your entire sense of identity? Author and former doula Jessi Harold joins us to explore the profound journey into matrescence—a term that captures the sweeping changes women nav...
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Episode 263
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35:56

[262] [INTERVIEW] Embracing Authenticity, Imposter Syndrome + Self Discovery w/ Imposter Sisters, Colleen O'Dea and Alix Robinson
Ever wondered how authenticity can break barriers and transform lives? Join me, Jess, as I chat with the fabulous Alix and Colleen from the Impostor Sisters. We unwrap Colleen’s epic journey from stay-at-home mom to influential social media mar...
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Episode 262
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46:01

[261] It's OK if you can't see the vision ✨
In today's podcast, Jess discusses the unpredictability of life and why it's okay not to have a clear vision for the future. She emphasizes embracing uncertainty, taking time for rest, and pursuing joy as ways to find clarity and adapt to life’...
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Episode 261
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31:15

[260] [SIS CHAT] Sisterhood Stories w/ Alison Butler, Robyn Brennan & Sarah McCann
What if embracing authenticity could unlock your full potential? Discover the compelling stories of my sisters in the sisterhood—Alison Butler, Robyn Brennan, and Sarah McCann—as we explore the transformative power of community, self-discovery,...
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Episode 260
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41:41

[259] [INTERVIEW] Building community and nurturing friendships w/ Diana Marie Keller
This episode delves into the transformative power of community, as Diana Marie Keller shares her journey of building the Fierce Ladies Collective in Cincinnati. Through personal stories and insights, Diana illustrates the impact of local connec...
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Episode 259
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48:10

[258] Life Lessons of 2024: Reflections on Luck, Change, and Finding Peace Amidst Chaos
Ever wondered how to keep the magic alive when everything seems overwhelming? Join me in this Selfish Confidence Podcast episode, where I open up about my journey from being child-free to embracing the desire for motherhood, and the unexpected ...
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Episode 258
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30:51

[257] [INTERVIEW] Finding a career that fits, purposefully and financially w/ Jen Warrington
Imagine walking away from your childhood dream of becoming a lawyer or a backup dancer, only to find your true calling in the unexpected world of career recruitment. That's exactly what happened to my friend Jen Warrington. In our latest podcas...
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Episode 257
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40:31

[256] For those in a hard or unpredictable season, this one is for you!
What if pregnancy isn't just a journey, but a powerful transformation? Join me, Jess, as I share my personal experiences navigating my hardest season yet of pregnancy, where each day is a lesson in adaptability and self-discovery. Together, we’...
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Episode 256
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23:51

[255] [SIS CHAT] Sisterhood Chat w/ Randi Jarrett, Ida Alessandrini + Nadine Gibbs
Ever wondered how to balance career aspirations with personal values? Our special Sisterhood Chat offers insights into this universal struggle, featuring Randi, a hormone coach at Happy Her Coaching, Ida, a dedicated preschool teacher and podca...
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Episode 255
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38:20

[254] [INTERVIEW] Journey of Resilience, Remote Work, and Rural Success w/ Ingrid Deon
What if the twists and turns of life could actually pave the way for success beyond your wildest dreams? Join us on Selfish Confidence as we welcome Ingrid Deon, a remarkable woman whose path from an aspiring journalist to a thriving business o...
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Episode 254
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31:31

[253] Dust off those dreams, sis 💨✨
The holiday season can often feel like a whirlwind of societal expectations and personal overwhelm, but what if there was a way to transform that chaos into clarity and confidence? Join me, Jess, as I share my personal journey of navigating thi...
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Episode 253
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28:20

[252] [INTERVIEW] Real talk on babies and business w/ Ashley Cooley from Birth Baby Sleep
What happens when passion meets opportunity in the realm of parenthood and entrepreneurship? Join me, Jess, in a heartwarming conversation with my friend and birth education expert, Ashley Cooley, as she narrates her inspiring journey from ment...
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Episode 252
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36:23

[251] The end of year push and accessing YOUR needs this season
Feeling like the end of the year is a seesaw between motivation and the desperate need for rest? You're not alone, and this week's episode of the Selfish Confidence Podcast promises a treasure trove of insights. We'll unravel the delica...
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Episode 251
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23:41

[250] Noticing self-disconnection and easy steps for reconnection
Feeling disconnected during major life transitions, like pregnancy, is more common than you'd think. Join me, Jess, as I navigate this intricate journey on the Self(ish) Confidence Podcast, exploring unforeseen challenges and personal growth.&n...
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Episode 250
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26:12

[249] Celebrating 3 Years of Self(ish) Confidence 🥳🥳
Three years, already?! 😮😮 Where does the time go?Picture this: from the initial uncertainty of starting a podcast to the heartwarming anticipation of raising a son, all while navigating the complex myths of pregnancy. This episode is a ...
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Episode 249
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29:52

[248] Speak Up! Creating Community + Confidence
Ever wonder how life’s biggest challenges can turn into your most creative periods? Join me, Jess, on the Selfish Confidence Podcast as I share the rollercoaster journey of organizing a major event in Halifax while navigating the ups and downs ...
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Episode 248
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44:24

[247] You're a butterfly, Sis: Transformation is happening, even if you can't see it yet 🦋
Ever felt overwhelmed by the demands of a big project and wondered if you could truly trust the process? Join me as I share the rollercoaster experience of planning my first major event, "Speak Up," and how it has taught me to let go of rigid e...
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Episode 247
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23:38
