Self(ish) Confidence
What if your confidence didn't depend on fitting into a box you never wanted to be in?
Self(ish) Confidence is the podcast for women who are done living by someone else's timeline and ready to trust their own.
Because let's be honest—it's hard to feel confident when you're constantly comparing yourself to everyone else's highlight reel or wondering if you're doing life "right." Comparison creeps in. Self-doubt gets louder. And suddenly, showing up as your authentic self feels impossible.
But what if confidence wasn't about having it all figured out?
What if it was about trusting yourself enough to take the next step?
Each week, your host Jess Clerke, Confidence Coach, Human Design Guide, and creator of the Self(ish) Sisterhood, shares honest conversations, mindset shifts, personal stories, and practical tools to help you stop people-pleasing, embrace your uniqueness, and build confidence from the inside out.
Whether your life looks unconventional, unexpected, or completely different than you imagined, you're in the right place.
This is your permission slip to stop performing and start showing up as you. To trust your intuition. To shine your light. To create a life that feels deeply aligned—not one that simply looks good from the outside.
Because you are not too much.
You're not behind.
And you don't need anyone else's permission to become the woman you're meant to be.
Let's build that belief together.
Self(ish) Confidence
Latest Episodes
[315] How To Let Go Of Identities That No Longer Fit
You can outgrow a label and still keep living like it’s true. We’re talking about the sneaky way old identities cling to us, even after we’ve healed, evolved, and built a life that proves we’re different now. I start with a rare quiet moment, a...
[314] Seasons That Shake Your Identity
Change can be exciting, but the part nobody warns you about is the identity whiplash. One day you’re handling life like you always have, and the next you’re in a new season, new schedule, new body, new priorities, and you’re still expecting the...
[313] What If Your Best Summer Starts With Fun
Summer doesn’t wait, and neither should your joy. I’m Jess, and I’m talking to the woman who loves a checklist but keeps putting her own fun at the bottom of it, the “I’ll relax after the dishes” mindset that quietly steals the best parts of th...
[312] The Things I Swore I'd Never Do
“I would never do that” can feel like a boundary, but sometimes it’s a wall. Today we get honest about the weird moment when you look back at your past self and laugh because you did the exact thing you swore you’d never do and it actually made...
[311] Your Lack Of Confidence Is Showing 🙈
The fastest way to spot a confidence dip is not in what you say, it’s in what you do next: the overexplaining, the defensiveness, the mental replay of a one-minute interaction that suddenly feels like a life review. If that sounds familiar, you...
