Self(ish) Confidence
What if your confidence didn't depend on fitting into a box you never wanted to be in?
Self(ish) Confidence is the podcast for women who are done living by someone else's timeline and ready to trust their own.
Because let's be honest—it's hard to feel confident when you're constantly comparing yourself to everyone else's highlight reel or wondering if you're doing life "right." Comparison creeps in. Self-doubt gets louder. And suddenly, showing up as your authentic self feels impossible.
But what if confidence wasn't about having it all figured out?
What if it was about trusting yourself enough to take the next step?
Each week, your host Jess Clerke, Confidence Coach, Human Design Guide, and creator of the Self(ish) Sisterhood, shares honest conversations, mindset shifts, personal stories, and practical tools to help you stop people-pleasing, embrace your uniqueness, and build confidence from the inside out.
Whether your life looks unconventional, unexpected, or completely different than you imagined, you're in the right place.
This is your permission slip to stop performing and start showing up as you. To trust your intuition. To shine your light. To create a life that feels deeply aligned—not one that simply looks good from the outside.
Because you are not too much.
You're not behind.
And you don't need anyone else's permission to become the woman you're meant to be.
Let's build that belief together.
Self(ish) Confidence
Latest Episodes
[312] The Things I Swore I'd Never Do
“I would never do that” can feel like a boundary, but sometimes it’s a wall. Today we get honest about the weird moment when you look back at your past self and laugh because you did the exact thing you swore you’d never do and it actually made...
[311] Your Lack Of Confidence Is Showing 🙈
The fastest way to spot a confidence dip is not in what you say, it’s in what you do next: the overexplaining, the defensiveness, the mental replay of a one-minute interaction that suddenly feels like a life review. If that sounds familiar, you...
[310] What If Your Distractions Aren’t Random At All
Your attention is getting pulled in a hundred directions, and it’s not because you’re lazy or “bad at discipline.” It’s because modern life is designed to distract you and if you’re parenting, building a business, working a job, or just trying ...
[309] Stop Letting Other People’s Fear Lead
Someone hears your dream and suddenly it feels risky, unrealistic, or “too much.” That moment can look like advice, concern, or even excitement, but underneath it is often the same thing: projection. We’re talking about what happens when other ...
[308] Being Delulu in Barbados: a BTS Look of the recent Self(ish) Retreat
Mom guilt tells us we have to pick a lane: be fully present at home or fully committed to the dream. I’m fresh back from our Barbados Selfish Retreat, and I’m here to tell you what it actually looked like to host a week-long women’s retreat as ...
